Life Lessons from Chuck Swindoll

Chuck Swindoll blessed us this morning with life lessons learned from ministry. Great wisdom. The notes below are rough, but I did my best to capture as much as I could.

I was raised by the greatest generation. Self sacrifice came natural. My maternal grandfather had the greatest influence on his life. So remember the impact that you will have on the younger ones. My family loved Jesus. My mother shared a proverb that she prayed over me. “A man’s gift makes room for him and brings him before great men.”
Some of you have no idea how God is using you or will use you. Years from now, you will be so glad you were faithful.

I would any day trade my youth for wisdom and truth.

1. I should tell people how I feel about them now, not wait until later. It will help them.
2. I’m not even aware of the things people notice and remember. They watch when you don’t think they
3. I’ve seldom felt sorry for things I didn’t say, but often for what I have. Watch your lips.
4. Being real is a lot better than trying to look spiritual. Be who you are. Accept how God has made you and become real. People know you better than you think.
5. 12 words that change your marriage. “I am wrong. I am sorry. Please forgive me. I love you.”
6. It doesn’t pay to talk anyone into or out of a big decision. Don’t think you can talk God’s will into anyone. God is at work in their lives and that struggle is part of God’s work.
7. Corrie Tenboom. “Hold everything loosely. Or it will hurt as the Father pries your fingers from them. Even your children.”
8. You can get a job anywhere, but why would I want a job when I have the chance to fulfill a lifelong calling.
9. When you fit, things flow. Don’t force it. If you don’t fit. Get out.
10. Be intentionally and passionately crazy about your spouse.
11. It’s hardest at home. Church is simple compared to home. I could run three churches easier.
12. Days of maintenance far outnumber days of magnificence. That’s life in ministry. Very little in ministry is “fantastic”. Still worth it.
13. Some people are not going to change no matter what. Some people choose to walk away from the truth. You can’t change them. You want to. But leave it to God.
14. If you have a day off, take it. What good are you when you’ve blown it or burned out?
15. Perception overshadows reality. Your reputation may hang on someone’s misconception. Truth will win out. You will never win them all, so quit trying. Gal 1:10.
16. Often it’s the hard thing that’s the right thing. Take risks.
17. Stop saying “never” and “always”.
18. Some things aren’t really worth the sweat. Lighten up.
19. You can’t beat kindness. “Young man, I don’t know you and you don’t know me, but whatever it is that is wrong, I care. And I’ll stay here with you as long as you want to”. It’s always appropriate to stay kind. Even when administering discipline. Do it with a heavy heart. Be kind.
20. You can’t beat fun. Learn to start living.
21. You’ll make lots of mistakes. It’s ok.
22. Walk with Jesus. It’s worth it.


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